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The Problem with Haters
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A hater is a very negative and critical person. These are people who immensely dislike someone or something. They are open about their dislike. In that regard, they are very honest.
The problem with haters is not that they hate you or your work. The problem is that they are very vocal about it.
By the way, not everyone who criticizes you or does not like your work is not a hater. With them is not personal, it is either business or academic. People are entitled to disagree. Heck, even I am a hater at times.
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Thanks to social media and the internet, we can accumulate as many haters as followers. Furthermore, the haters will always seem like the loudest voices criticizing you.
Haters are not satisfied with just hating you; they have to let the whole world know they do. It is almost like a personal crusade for them. And you are the enemy.
Granted, we are not a bag of gold coins for everyone to like us. Still, it hurts. And it hurts more when it is friends and family members doing it. We expect them to be on our side. Casinos cant stop you. They are supposed to be for us, not against us. You feel betrayed.
Nonetheless, there is an upside to haters. What is it?
Hate Me with Premeditation
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We all have haters. We all have that one person (or many) who are against us and do not want to see us succeed. There is something about us that rubs them the wrong way.
It does not sound rational. There is nothing rational about it. No logic to explain it. Even if you asked them, they could not explain it.
Yet, you do not need a degree in psychology to understand haters are not happy people. They create chaos; they live to judge and point fingers. They get off doing so. What a sad way to live.
Nevertheless, their hate is not arbitrary. They hate you with premeditation. With them is personal (even if you don’t know them). They are merchants and hate is the currency. Don’t let them bankrupt you.
So, what is their problem with you? What is so personal? Easy. You have something they don’t. You are doing something they wish they could.
Hence, haters secretly want to be you. It should be flattering but it is not. Because their actions do not come from a place of admiration but jealousy and envy.
How to deal with them? This post is not about that. There are dozens of posts about it. Some of them contradictory.
This is how I handle them:
- I ignore them and block them on social media. As you should do with toxic people.
- I will as them a clarification question. You want to determine they are indeed haters.
- I would respond to them once. Politely. And then ignored. They can taunt me all they want. I am done.
So, again, how come I love these judgemental bunch?
Why Do I Love my Haters?
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We talked about how negative self-talk affects writers. In effect, we are our worst enemies since we are full of doubts and fears. The last thing we need are haters feeding us more.
And yet, I love my haters. Do I need my head examined? Of course, but not because of this. I love my haters for one simple reason:
If you have haters, you must be doing something right. (paraphrased) --Lisa Newton
As a matter of fact, haters keep you humble (See? You ain’t that awesome.) while feeding your motivation (I will show these naysayers).
If you got hundreds of people telling you how much they hate your work, look at the silver line, at least they are reading your work and are engaged enough to leave a negative review. Bad publicity is still publicity.
The name of the game is discoverability. We want to improve our chances of being discovered. Haters create the noise. Eventually, people’s curiosity will lead them to check out your work to see why it is so controversial.
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Moreover, haters are self-defeating. They rather spend time criticizing you than work on themselves. And the more they make you the problem, the farther they are from their goals. It is easier to judge than to create.
Like we say in Puerto Rico:
No envidies lo que tengo; jódete trabajando igual que yo. (Do not envy what I have; screw yourself working for it like I do).
In the end, it is not your haters who are going to have the last word; it is your fans, those for whom your work resonates. They will defend you from your haters. Thus, ignore the haters; focus on your fans.
In conclusion, love your haters because they mean you are getting exposure. But do not neglect your fans because it is them, not your haters, who will make or break you.
Reader, do you have haters? How do you deal with them?